Thursday, June 4, 2009

Spreading the Love-in more ways than one

I have decided and I'm sure that the wording of this post will change many times over the course of this new project of mine. But, I am just going to dig in as I feel that is what God is telling me to do. In a dream last night I came up with a plan to share about organ donation. In my dream I had it fully planned out how I was going to write this post and which pictures I was going to post and the good that I was going to do. But, somehow in the waking up and doing the mom duties, it got lost in my brain and the coffee still has yet to drag my thoughts back to me.

The basics--there are plenty of organs to go around. The problem, not enough people are donating those organs when they die and the organs are being buried. The why--they didn't obtain and sign a donor's registration card and so when they died their family didn't know what they wanted and since they had just lost a family member, it was too hard of a decision to make and therefore they didn't make it and what could have been a lifesaving organ for someone was instead buried in the ground. As of today there are 102,019 people waiting for a lifesaving transplant of some organ. My son is 1 out of those 102,019 people. Statistically 30-50% of these people will die before they ever get a transplant. For a parent waiting on one of those, those are some pretty scary odds. Now, my son is lucky at the moment (in a sense) because he is only 15 months old. What an odd sentence as how could it be lucky to need a transplant?

He is lucky because he is only 15 months old. Due to his age, he is top priority and will therefore only wait around 6 months for a kidney. When he does this again in 10-15 years, his wait will be 3-5 YEARS. Dialysis in and of itself is risky business. There is the constant threat of infection. Then there is the wonky labs that could possibly harm him. And not even in the top 5 things that I worry about but still in the back of my head is that this will mean that for the majority of his preteen to teen years he will feel sick. That's a long time.

So, I have decided that I need to be the change. I need to advocate for him in the best way I know possible.

I have decided to make this into a contest. Right now I have two gift cards and I would like to give them to people. So, the contest goes like this. You will get one entry for every email, facebook post, blog entry, etc that you send out in which you tell someone that this is the face of organ donation. Organ donation is not just elderly people who have lived out their lives. Organ donation affects little bitty babies and it affects men with families in their 30s and it affects elderly grandparents as well. My gift cards are not much yet but I'm hoping through donations and God touching people's hearts to make this into something much bigger than just me and my blog. My goal is to inform 1000 people about organ donation and to help them to realize that this affects everyone.

So, get to blogging and emailing and facebook posting. : ) Right now the giftcards are a $10 to Starbucks and a $10 to Best Buy.

I have to go out in a bit so I'm sure this will be reworded when I get home but I felt the need to post this before I my brain totally forgot about the idea. Please let me know if you have any ideas.

8 comments:

Jessi said...

it's an amazing thing that you're doing. getting the word out there is what needs to be done.

i'm sorry for what you have to endure, and your precious baby boy and i am adding you to my prayer list for an organ asap.

Gracie said...

Jess I have little energy to write these days but promise to post something about organ donation tomorrow. No gift card needed!

Cheli said...

Jess, do you have a picture of Logan you would be okay with my using for my blog?

Katie said...

I followed your story on our "due in" board for a while and am lucky to have stumbles across you now. I am still praying for Logan. You are one strong mama.

carebear said...

Hey! I just saw you post on MckMama's forum. I have a kidney baby too. He was diagnosised end stage renal failure at 3 days old. We started on PD, but are now on Hemo. We have our transplant evaluation set for next Tuesday. I'm both excited and nervous. I've gotten used to "our normal" you know...now we are throwing something new into our routine. EEEK!
We LOVE the g-tube!! I'd kiss the inventor if I knew who he was. ;) Prayers and hugs to you and your family!

Angelique said...

(((Jess))) Just reading your blog today made my heart hurt. I know it shouldn't but the road he's already been on, and the road he'll have to travel, isn't easy and I'm so sad. Can I copy your blog and post it on my page, with a picture of Logan??

Unknown said...

Hey Jessica, I tried to send you an email but it came back to me undelivered. Anyway, I just read your comment on my blog and I wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you and Logan and sending lots of love. It's gonna be a crazy time, can't lie, but you're strong and you can do it! Please also remember that you can get in touch with me any time if you need to talk or anything.

Anonymous said...

hey jess! this is awesome. I will post something.. Which picture can I use of Logey bear and his brothers? Maybe a fam picture too?

No card needed either.. just to get the word out there is enough for me!